I so appreciate people who are characters. For instance, Harold had a life that was dotted with crazy antics, stories, and wild adventures, one of which was his desire to plan a 40th birthday 'funeral' for himself, complete with a pre-written obituary, and invitations set to send from an imaginary posthumous state. He thought it would be fun to hear what people would say about him, before it was too late to really hear. There were many laughs and more than a few tears were shed. Be honest, don't we all crave, on some level to have an understanding of ‘how we're doing' in this lifetime and just maybe have the chance to press pause, change the disc, and reroute our destination if need be?